Sabrina Zohar

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2,255 appearances 4 recordings 4 series first heard Dec 2024 last heard 17 Apr

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Untraditionally Lala · An Unlikely Affair: If Dating is Exhausting You, Listen to This · 17 Apr 2026 podcast

But if you are projecting that everyone's going to cheat on you and you don't trust people, then we need to get back to a self-trust.

Because it's never going to help you.

First of all, I don't want to be beholden to what somebody else did to you.

That's not fair to me.

That's not fair to anybody new that you meet to have to take the brunt of what someone else did to you five years ago.

And so if you go around saying, I don't trust anybody, I want you to start to reframe that to, I don't trust myself to be able to identify if they're a trustworthy person.

Trust is conditional.

I give a little, I see if they do something with it, and then I give more.

But I'll say this.

If you're going to try to get back with somebody that cheated on you, then you're making a choice that you have accepted it and that you are going to let it go.

Because it's not you want to sit here and check their phone every five seconds and accuse them and scream at them.

It's like that's not helping anybody.

Then please don't get back together with this person if you can't trust them.

Whatever you decide, I support you.

But if you're going to get back in the relationship, then get back in the relationship and try with this person and see if they can earn your trust.

Personally, I wouldn't, but that's just me.

I don't regret anything I've ever experienced because I wouldn't be this version I am today.

I think the best place to start is obviously if you're in therapy, if you're working with somebody, you know, because what we have to do is rebuild your sense of self, right?

For a lot of the times, especially after a divorce, you're not just breaking up with the person.

You're breaking up with the version of you that was in that relationship.

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