Sabrina Zohar

I used to be so, I created my career because I was so anxious I couldn't sit still.

I would, oh my God, Jay, you don't even want to know.

In my heyday, I would text a guy and say, like I would text him, hey, do you want to hang out?

20 minutes would go by.

I didn't hear back.

I'd be like, okay, guess not.

And then I'd get a text from him like, hey, I actually did want to hang out with you, but not anymore.

And it's like, they're right.

They're right.

Because they could pick up on, I need you.

And nobody wants to feel that when you just met somebody.

It's a very overwhelming feeling.

I don't care what your attachment style is.

So that's the only thing I'll challenge you on is who says that's who you are.

Who says that's who you are, right?

Totally.

Then I would go back and say, where did I learn that from?

Because if we're going to date from lack and we're going to date from, I'm insecure, I don't believe in myself, it's going to be really difficult to let someone love you in the ways that you deserve.

Because the reality is, and you know this, you're married, your partner's going to trigger you.

You are going to be triggered.