Sadia Khan

So if you did grow up somewhat stable, try and look for stability if you can.

It's really difficult becoming a therapist in your relationship.

It's super, super difficult.

And it's really difficult when their family hates your family.

And it's just not a nice environment for raising kids in.

So if you can choose family that relatively get on or similar to some extent, that helps.

And the final thing, sorry, I'm going on and on.

But the final thing I would say, the fourth thing is having similar values.

And what I mean by similar values is we agree fundamentally on the main things, what's right and wrong.

So if I think it's right for my child to be transgender and you think it's really, really wrong, we're going to fight so much.

Whereas if we fundamentally agree on what's right, what's wrong, we generally get on easier.

Life is a bit easier.

So just do you think it's wrong to text an ex?

And I think it's totally fine on a birthday.

And he thinks it's the worst thing ever.

We're going to bump heads all the time.

But if we're both in agreement with or without each other, that's how we think.

Life becomes easier with somebody you think the same as.

Like sometimes you find out a little too late.

Yeah, it happens.