Sarah Bays

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910 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 26 Jun

Sarah Bays’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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But Are You Happy? · Catching Feelings In Your Situationship? We Got You. · 5 Jun 2026 podcast

Yeah.

This is what I want.

This is.

Yeah.

This makes me happy.

This is what I'm looking for.

And then that kind of like tides you over until the next breadcrumb.

And but in between the breadcrumbs, there is this discomfort of like, oh, OK, you know, I thought maybe we'd be seeing a bit more of each other or whatever.

I'm really disappointed that he didn't show up to my thing that I had that was really important or, you know, like different things like that, I think get sort of minimized or swept away by the kind of good bits.

And whether or not there's something there around

Is it that you didn't know that it was a situationship or were you not willing to bring up certain things that would have clarified that for you?

So there's a resistance in actually finding out or talking about your grievances or saying like, hey, I need a bit more than this or... Yeah, yeah, totally.

Yeah, I think a really, really common thing I see is people excusing things.

And it's not to say that we have to hold everyone to the highest accountability for every single thing they do or don't do, but there's a dishonesty in ourselves and it's often to protect ourselves.

You know, if I really admit to myself how hurt I am about that, I have to actually let that pain come up and I have to feel it.

And maybe it's just easier to say that, oh, it wasn't that important.

And, you know, their work is really, really important to them and they're really busy.

So that's okay.

You know, so I think that...

people struggle to hold both.

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