Stephen Andrew
speaker
600 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Aug 2019
Stephen Andrew’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
Trend
recordings per month · last 12 monthsNo recordings in the last 12 months.Older appearances are listed below; set an alert to hear about the next one.
Appearances
And some of the the reasons that keep us in that sort of pattern are very positive.
Um if you are drawn to a particular if if you like sport, for example, you'll be dating probably sporty type people because you're likely to meet them in those places where you watch or play sport.
If you like music, if you're drawn to music, you'll meet people who have similar interests and um discuss
regard those or feel less attracted to those that really don't care for music if that's what you're into.
And if you're talking about personality types per se in terms of
Well, family violence and and and a history of of destructive relationships with well, um, difficult or violent um men or women, you'll find the history of that will go right back to when you were very, very small.
And not directly of course, but you will see it in your relational history most likely.
Yes, we do.
And it's it's around
often around the attachment style that we develop when we're very, very small with the our primary caregiver or caregivers.
And if it's a secure attachment style, we tend not to have a great deal of tolerance or time for destructive um relationships.
We have a good
strong sense of ourselves that has developed through a good, strong sense of our relationship with our primary caregiver.
However, if we develop uh an attachment style that is anxious
uh either anxious resistant or anxious avoidant.
That has problems and we carry those through in our relationships and we seek to resolve those problems.
The problems w that I th I guess can be best easily explained as receiving conditional love or love that was broken or not secure.
And we seek that.
We we really want to find that.
And rather than going to places where for example where people who have we rather than going to people who have secure attachment styles, we will seek to work out the stuff with mum or the stuff with dad with a series of other people who are also working out their stuff with mum and dad too.
Showing 441–460 of 600 · page 23 of 30
← Previous
Next →