Susan Stiffelman
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353 appearances
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first heard Oct 2019
last heard Oct 2019
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Well, of course she's getting upset because she wants so badly to be accepted by these kids because they've embarrassed her or ridiculed her before.
Um, because she she's trying to establish more independence, and this is coming across as me babying her.
Of course she's behaving.
She should be doing in a certain way and and it gives you more freedom to approach it differently.
Fake it till you make it.
Yeah, you can you can do that for sure.
It it doesn't hurt.
Um I think it's more powerful when you actually do the work to help.
address these issues at their root.
So this is why you won't generally find me scripting things.
Say this when your child does this, because kids see right through it and they feel our energy more than they hear our words.
But it certainly doesn't hurt to hold ourselves in a place where we imagine that there's a steel rod running from the heavens all the way through our body down into the earth and there's a sturdiness inside that we can anchor ourselves to.
That that can kind of
convey itself or communicate itself.
energetically and that our kids can pick up on that and respond to that more favorably.
Oh my gosh, it's just the cornerstone of my work.
I think in both books it's in the first or second chapter.
Because when we try and parent as a lawyer or dictator with logic or negotiations or force, we're missing
The opportunity to make it easier because human beings are wired to cooperate with those with whom they feel a strong attachment and to be defiant or resistant to those with whom they don't.
It's just a basic principle.
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