Susan Stiffelman

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 180: Susan Stiffelman on Parenting Without Power Struggles · 20 Oct 2019 podcast

And first I want to demonstrate what happens when we do act two parenting when a child's left logical rational brain is offline because they're over in their right emotional feeling brain.

So go ahead and make the make the request or the demand.

And I'm gonna first show people something very familiar, which is what it sounds like when we move quickly into lawyer mode or dictator mode.

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Well, first of all, I doubt if all your friends are going.

And secondly, no.

It's completely a terrifying movie.

I even saw some review about it.

It's meant for much older people who love horror movies and don't have nightmares in the night the way you would if you saw that movie.

I'm sorry, honey, it's not gonna happen.

I'm your parent and I have to make the decision that I think is best for you.

And that movie is gonna give you nightmares.

That movie is gonna end up with you in our bed for the next three weeks.

And and I don't want that.

So maybe you can find another movie, but not that one.

Yes.

Because here's the thing, human beings

When we push against someone, they push back.

So this is the dynamic and this is the mechanism built into us.

And when I'm coming at you, my child, with all this information, with all these explanations that you haven't asked for, and I'm coming with force, there's nothing you can do really.

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