Tanya Coons

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The Hook Up · Reclaiming your sexuality after a life-changing accident · 21 Oct 2019 podcast

I I think so, 'cause I get lots of people come to me, um, when their relationships have changed and saying, I didn't sign up for this and that's true, you may not have signed up for things.

Um, we're not gonna know how life is gonna take us.

One thing or what I always say to people, there are three sure things in life.

There's death and there's tax and there's change.

Right?

So the whole time we're in a relationship, we are changing.

And sometimes our relationship can weather the change of two people or however many people are in the relationship.

And sometimes our relationships can't.

So it depends on the change and it depends on the people and whether they can weather it.

So I was really interested in Emma's um piece there because yes, big life change happened to her and she met somebody that was across the change and could work with her.

Right.

So this person was able to sign up for that and say, Yep, okay, great.

I think you're great and I think that we can form a relationship together and I have all the information I need.

I think it's really checking in with your with your partner, the one that's had the change and checking in uh to see what do you need. 'Cause I think a lot of people can go into I'm gonna help or I'm gonna fix situations and really we need to be of service, right?

Which is hard.

We have to do our own work to be able to be of service.

We need to get our head across, okay, this has happened to my partner, I've got to get my head around it, I have to see what's happening for

them I may have to spend some time grieving what I've lost because there'll be you know lost potential there or lost lost dreams or lost directions.

So and that's very important to sit with that and allow it, rather than going straight into right, right, right, we're gonna fix things and do things.

You really need to say to your partner, okay, I'm gonna sit with my part of this deal and

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