Tanya Coons

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3,654 appearances 23 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2016 last heard Aug 2022

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The Hook Up · Sapiosexual - aka when smart is sexy · 9 Jul 2019 podcast

So, the similar ideas that, you know, when we're out of the bedroom, we can be creative or sporty or intelligent, these sorts of things. matched

There are also sexual personality types. matched

So, for some people, they might be really passionate and they want to explore and do lots of different things. matched

For other people, connection is really important. matched

They may have a list of things that they love to do in the bedroom, but for those particular, some people, it's connection in terms of eye contact and skin contact. matched

For other people, it's connection in terms of mental contact. matched

So before we're getting down and after we've gotten down, we can actually talk about some things and feel close and connected and interested in each other's worlds. matched

that make sense? matched

I mean I can speak for myself that you know sometimes if I'm in a lecture or there's something that's really like floating my boat you know I will turn to a friend who knows um how excited I get about these things and say I think I can feel my underwear falling off right because matched

It's just giving me all the thrills and the chills and I can feel arousal in my whole body because it's hitting the right buttons for me. matched

That's not to say that everybody else does things that way, but I definitely think it's arousal when around or in the presence of the kind of intelligence that works for you. matched

And I'd really like to rule out the spelling and grammar Nazis because I think that's just plain snobby. matched

They say matched

as you matched

Yeah, that's rubbish. matched

That's what I was thinking, that some people might be using this as a self-identification for intelligence rather than it's actually arousing for them. matched

So it is a bit of the one-upmanship. matched

Just in reference to what you were saying before, Peter, I've seen all genders, all orientations of people describing themselves as sapiosexual. matched

I think it's non-discriminatory out there in the dating matched

Yeah. matched

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