Tanya Coons

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3,654 appearances 23 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2016 last heard Aug 2022

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So they can also work with you on the anxiety side of things, so give you some coping mechanisms, how to work with anxiety, and then give some... voice-verified
Some tips and techniques. voice-verified
I have lots of different exercises and guidelines for people to try and things to do to explore their body. voice-verified
But I think the coming along to a sex therapist kind of keeps you accountable if you have a couple of sessions. voice-verified
So you learn stuff, go home and try stuff, then come back and debrief with what was difficult or what got in the way. voice-verified
well that really depends on people's prerogative if they want to try things why not um careful of becoming reliant on it i always like the this is why we're talking about mixing it up sometimes play without toys sometimes play with toys different toys it's you know it's all helping you because there are all sorts of different orgasms that you can have some some of these toys can give you great um and really intense orgasms you can also achieve that with a partner or by yourself but in different ways voice-verified
So I think the toys can help you get there quickly. voice-verified
I think exploring your own body, you know, when you take your time and remember people who have vulvas, their bodies can take 45 to 60 minutes to be fully aroused. voice-verified
If you take that time, there's going to be very, very intense sensations in your body because it's all pumping and doing all of the wonderful things that it should do. voice-verified
So when you're stimulating yourself then, it's a very different type of sensation and experience than when you first start out at minute one. voice-verified
If that makes sense. voice-verified
Yeah. matched
You want to promise not to hit below the belt and not to wear your belt on your forehead. matched
Don't punch hard and low, but also don't be too sensitive that you can't hear if your partner's got an issue with you or something that you're doing. matched
Because if they don't feel safe to bring things up, then they can't sort things out with you. matched
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You know, I don't know. matched
I say to clients several times a week in my practice that we're all fundamentally very irritating and we're gonna annoy each other. matched
So we need to learn how to deal with that in ways that are productive. matched
Um, why do we fight? matched
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