Tanya Coons

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3,654 appearances 23 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2016 last heard Aug 2022

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The Hook Up · Unblurring the lines: how consent makes sex better · 19 Oct 2020 podcast

But I think the better we are at sort of working out like, well, hey, I'm not sure that this is actually happening for me.

Then the tricky part is how do I convey this to my partner?

And there's lots of ways.

We'll talk about that.

That is a really wonderful question.

I think it plays a huge role because a lot of people don't put themselves forward.

If they're not feeling confident or competent, they'll let the other person lead.

And I'm often saying to people, it feels to me like you're outsourcing your pleasure.

You're just hoping that your partner will know what you want, when you want it and how you want it.

And, you know, I don't know about that.

I've been around the sun quite a few times now, have not met a mind reader.

We have to...

put it out there about what we like or even if we don't know even if we're curious about something like i wouldn't mind trying kissing this way but i'm not even sure i'd like it that's a really great request it's like how about we try this but i reserve the right to go yeah nah

like it.

Or maybe we need to try it again to make sure I really don't like it or that I love it.

You know, whenever we're trying something, just think about whenever you learn something new, especially physically, it's awkward.

It's clunky.

Embrace it.

You don't have to be too cool for school.

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