Tanya Coons
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3,654 appearances
23 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2016
last heard Aug 2022
Tanya Coons’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I'm into that.
I'm kinky.
I like spanking.
I like bondage.
I like this.
I like that.
I like kissing or I like slow.
Whatever it is, people actually put out there what they want.
And often they're talking and it's a bit of getting a bit saucy and sort of winding themselves up.
But in those conversations, there's valuable information.
I read an article, it's a couple of years ago now, but it was about folks in New York.
sending each other a sex list before they met up so there were three columns this is the column of things that i really really like with gold stars next to the things that will make me come here's a list of things that i might be okay to try and here's a list of things that are definitely off the menu don't even ask i love this idea because it really works well for people who've had trauma
that they don't have to explain to their partner, well, I had a bad thing happen and now as a result of that, this, this and that, no, go zones for me.
It's just there and then it doesn't need to be brought up or pushed again.
And that list of things, it's not a discussion point, it's a given.
So I always think with consent, if somebody says no to you or they're not into something, you need to go, thank you very much for saying that, not start a crusade to talk them into it.
That's not okay.
It's never okay.
If someone says no outside of the bedroom, do not, when you're inside the bedroom, try and put it on the table.
I'm very, very clear on that.
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