Tanya Coons

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3,654 appearances 23 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2016 last heard Aug 2022

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The Hook Up · Unblurring the lines: how consent makes sex better · 19 Oct 2020 podcast

So that's if you're sort of negotiating with someone online.

If you're in person, I do a lot of work with Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, and the first thing that we want to do is set a container.

So it's what are we doing today?

You know, how long have we got to play?

What kind of play do we want to do?

Do we want to do outercourse?

Is intercourse on the table?

Are we playing around naked?

Are we doing this in our underwear?

Are there some things to consider?

Like, oh my gosh, I went to the hairdresser today.

Please don't muck up my hair.

Tomorrow you can pull my hair and say giddy up, but today, no.

I might have an injury or something that's sore or strained.

You know, like, oh, I can't put weight on my left knee today.

All sorts of things.

So whatever's going on for you today,

you put in the container and then that's it for today's play session, right?

In the middle of playing, it's like, oh, I've had this great idea.

Great, let's chalk it up for next time, right?

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