Theo Von

And I think if I've learned anything, like if I could send like a, like all points bulletin out, it's like everything we know about the erectile response is that it's what we call parasympathetic. It comes from the relaxation response. Orgasm is related to, it's almost like a stress of sorts. It's

The key to all of it is a lot of exhales, a lot of nasal breathing, and just slow the whole thing down. Slow the whole thing down. Later, once you're comfortable with somebody, if you've got five minutes and you're going to go for the quickie thing in the kitchen before you leave to work, that's a whole program.

The key to all of it is a lot of exhales, a lot of nasal breathing, and just slow the whole thing down. Slow the whole thing down. Later, once you're comfortable with somebody, if you've got five minutes and you're going to go for the quickie thing in the kitchen before you leave to work, that's a whole program.

The key to all of it is a lot of exhales, a lot of nasal breathing, and just slow the whole thing down. Slow the whole thing down. Later, once you're comfortable with somebody, if you've got five minutes and you're going to go for the quickie thing in the kitchen before you leave to work, that's a whole program.

That's like that guy Lethal Shooter on Instagram, the guy who can make a basket from anywhere. He worked up to that. What you're trying to do, is slow down the whole thing and get into sensation. You got to get out of your head. Now it's one thing to say, get out of your head, it's another to do it.

That's like that guy Lethal Shooter on Instagram, the guy who can make a basket from anywhere. He worked up to that. What you're trying to do, is slow down the whole thing and get into sensation. You got to get out of your head. Now it's one thing to say, get out of your head, it's another to do it.

That's like that guy Lethal Shooter on Instagram, the guy who can make a basket from anywhere. He worked up to that. What you're trying to do, is slow down the whole thing and get into sensation. You got to get out of your head. Now it's one thing to say, get out of your head, it's another to do it.

So the whole process there starts with just only going so far as then you communicate with the person, slow down. These things have a real beauty to them because when people start entering that dance and communicating well with one another, all of a sudden, like the magic of biology takes over. And then someone thinks, oh, well now it's going to go back.

So the whole process there starts with just only going so far as then you communicate with the person, slow down. These things have a real beauty to them because when people start entering that dance and communicating well with one another, all of a sudden, like the magic of biology takes over. And then someone thinks, oh, well now it's going to go back.

So the whole process there starts with just only going so far as then you communicate with the person, slow down. These things have a real beauty to them because when people start entering that dance and communicating well with one another, all of a sudden, like the magic of biology takes over. And then someone thinks, oh, well now it's going to go back.

Then you just kind of restart and do the whole thing. And nowadays I think young males go quickly. They're like, I'm gonna take 20 milligrams. It's a dollop fill this out. Listen, that probably would help, but learning how to do this, this thing that we call intimacy, right? I mean, intimacy is a lot of things, but knowing that what's happening there is between the two of you

Then you just kind of restart and do the whole thing. And nowadays I think young males go quickly. They're like, I'm gonna take 20 milligrams. It's a dollop fill this out. Listen, that probably would help, but learning how to do this, this thing that we call intimacy, right? I mean, intimacy is a lot of things, but knowing that what's happening there is between the two of you

Then you just kind of restart and do the whole thing. And nowadays I think young males go quickly. They're like, I'm gonna take 20 milligrams. It's a dollop fill this out. Listen, that probably would help, but learning how to do this, this thing that we call intimacy, right? I mean, intimacy is a lot of things, but knowing that what's happening there is between the two of you

And that also means you guys, because, you know, there's also been a long history of men talking about all the women they slept with. And then that doesn't feel good necessarily to other women, you know? So the real, the art of intimacy is something that we've lost. And listen, I'm not saying that all sexes has this element, you know, sometimes. people just want to get together and get raw.

And that also means you guys, because, you know, there's also been a long history of men talking about all the women they slept with. And then that doesn't feel good necessarily to other women, you know? So the real, the art of intimacy is something that we've lost. And listen, I'm not saying that all sexes has this element, you know, sometimes. people just want to get together and get raw.

And that also means you guys, because, you know, there's also been a long history of men talking about all the women they slept with. And then that doesn't feel good necessarily to other women, you know? So the real, the art of intimacy is something that we've lost. And listen, I'm not saying that all sexes has this element, you know, sometimes. people just want to get together and get raw.

Like, but that's, that's a, you know, that's an advanced skill that you may or may not want to engage in. Right. And I think that slowing the whole thing down, like, Hey, we're going to be together in bed four times before we ever actually have intercourse. Like that's weird to look at you while I say that, but you know what I'm talking about? No, hell no. It would have been great.

Like, but that's, that's a, you know, that's an advanced skill that you may or may not want to engage in. Right. And I think that slowing the whole thing down, like, Hey, we're going to be together in bed four times before we ever actually have intercourse. Like that's weird to look at you while I say that, but you know what I'm talking about? No, hell no. It would have been great.

Like, but that's, that's a, you know, that's an advanced skill that you may or may not want to engage in. Right. And I think that slowing the whole thing down, like, Hey, we're going to be together in bed four times before we ever actually have intercourse. Like that's weird to look at you while I say that, but you know what I'm talking about? No, hell no. It would have been great.

This is the kind of thing that can transform, not only avoids problems, but can transform your notion of like what's possible in relationship. Oh, Slow, slow, slow, slow. And then once that intimacy is set, then there can be some, you know, more adventurous exploration at speed. But, you know, it's all about, it's all about slowing that thing down, slowing the whole process down.