TJ Power
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to walking in nature every day and having a proper truthful conversation with myself of am i only in the pursuit of pleasure and is that going to be my experience of life or am i going to experience a life that feels really happy and fulfilling and when i wake in the morning like this morning and i think oh i wonder what's been happening on social media i wonder how many likes i got on this thing whatever it might be i ask myself the question do i want pleasure or do i want a really happy fulfilling day and that ultimate conversation leads to better decision making
to walking in nature every day and having a proper truthful conversation with myself of am i only in the pursuit of pleasure and is that going to be my experience of life or am i going to experience a life that feels really happy and fulfilling and when i wake in the morning like this morning and i think oh i wonder what's been happening on social media i wonder how many likes i got on this thing whatever it might be i ask myself the question do i want pleasure or do i want a really happy fulfilling day and that ultimate conversation leads to better decision making
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, for sure.
Yeah, for sure.
It's definitely rapidly rising. Yeah, it's rapidly rising. But it is definitely at least now getting communicated about.
It's definitely rapidly rising. Yeah, it's rapidly rising. But it is definitely at least now getting communicated about.
Pornography addiction is fascinating because it's very different to alcohol and social media and sugar because it's very private. And when you say, for example, get really into alcohol and you become an alcoholic, or maybe you just slightly over drink, it becomes very apparent to your family and your friends that you're drinking a lot.
Pornography addiction is fascinating because it's very different to alcohol and social media and sugar because it's very private. And when you say, for example, get really into alcohol and you become an alcoholic, or maybe you just slightly over drink, it becomes very apparent to your family and your friends that you're drinking a lot.
whether you're going out and partying a lot, or like every time you socialize, you're always requiring wine and beer in order to have a good time. The same happens with the phone, like you're always engaging with it. The same happens with sugar. Pornography is like this secret addiction that society has. And that's why I think it's being massively underestimated.
whether you're going out and partying a lot, or like every time you socialize, you're always requiring wine and beer in order to have a good time. The same happens with the phone, like you're always engaging with it. The same happens with sugar. Pornography is like this secret addiction that society has. And that's why I think it's being massively underestimated.
And where with these other actions, things like eating chocolate, we know it has 150% increase in dopamine from baseline causing the spike and crash.
And where with these other actions, things like eating chocolate, we know it has 150% increase in dopamine from baseline causing the spike and crash.
when we engage with something like alcohol it's a 200 increase cocaine 250 increase all of these different studies are showing us a lot about those actions but very little is showing us much about pornography because it's a very private behavior when we look into how people solve it fundamentally people need to become very clear as to how it's actually impacting their life
when we engage with something like alcohol it's a 200 increase cocaine 250 increase all of these different studies are showing us a lot about those actions but very little is showing us much about pornography because it's a very private behavior when we look into how people solve it fundamentally people need to become very clear as to how it's actually impacting their life
there's the whole moral and ethical side of pornography. And if that can motivate someone away from it, that's incredible. We're obviously looking with the Dose Lab more at what is it actually doing to your experience of life and your motivation and your dopamine levels. And for me, I grew up as someone that started engaging in porn. I was like 13, 14.
there's the whole moral and ethical side of pornography. And if that can motivate someone away from it, that's incredible. We're obviously looking with the Dose Lab more at what is it actually doing to your experience of life and your motivation and your dopamine levels. And for me, I grew up as someone that started engaging in porn. I was like 13, 14.
I just heard that was a thing, searched on Google, discovered it was a thing, massive amount of pleasure, and then watched it for like 10 years of my life. I didn't think anything of it. All my friends watched it. I didn't even feel any real guilt or shame around watching it because it was so normalized in the world that I grew up in. And it's very unusual to even be in this moment now.
I just heard that was a thing, searched on Google, discovered it was a thing, massive amount of pleasure, and then watched it for like 10 years of my life. I didn't think anything of it. All my friends watched it. I didn't even feel any real guilt or shame around watching it because it was so normalized in the world that I grew up in. And it's very unusual to even be in this moment now.