Tom McCarthy

And by the way, the way that you do that is you see it, feel it, and believe it a couple times a day.

You see it, so you're visualizing it.

I actually like more the word you're imagining it.

Like I'm imagining myself in this.

And sometimes I talk myself through it.

I'm imagining myself accomplishing this and loving this and having so much fun doing this.

So that might be helpful versus just trying to see it, see it, see it.

Some people say they can't visualize.

So imagine, imagine it.

Just say, I'm imagining it.

And then that kind of takes the stress off having to see it so clearly.

You're just imagining it.

And then you're feeling it.

And then the next step is you've got to upgrade your story to upgrade your life.

So the way you think about who you are, what you're capable of, that's an action you have to take.

You've got to say, all right, what...

What part of me has to die in order to create space to create an upgraded version of me or a new version of me, the version that I want to move forward with?

We want to stay the way we are but have our life get better.

It doesn't work that way.

If you want to advance and create more, the old part of you can't do it.