Tony Robbins

Well, I think anyone who becomes a parent, that's God, right?

We're programmed to love our children.

Even if they look like lizards when they're born, we think they're beautiful, right?

They have no teeth, they're fat, they're dual and older.

Try that when you're 50.

See if it works for you, right?

But we're programmed for that.

But the difference in your wife is not you love your wife less.

It's that that love is so programmed as it is in her for your children, but it's also love that you don't think is going to go away because you never had a teenager.

So it feels like certain love.

Her love could feel like it goes away if you didn't behave effectively, or vice versa, it could happen on both sides.

But one of the great gifts that you'll be able to give each other as time goes on is to understand the best way to serve your children is the way you love each other.

Because we live in a world, we make our kids number one, and our kids are critical to us, but we're number one.

And the reason is Sage's life, her parents, you know, they had a relationship that was extraordinary and they had her, describe it if you would, honey, not me telling you.

Yeah, and you stay both.

In her family, you think about it, we think today, like, this whole thing, baby on board, that all started in the 80s.

You know, even movies changed.

Movies used to be The Exorcist was a child, right?

It was the devil child, Rosemary's baby, right?

We went to a new place where we put our children first, and that's why so many relationships are dysfunctional.