Tony Robbins

And you don't have the same level of joy.

You don't have the impact that you want to have, nor do you have the excitement that you really want to have.

So I look at it as something that it's worth earning your own self-esteem, but it's really not the secret.

The secret is find something else you obsess about more than yourself, and you'll have a level of energy that will compel you over the long term.

When I began, I began with a fuel, which was like, I'm going to show them.

It was anger that drove me.

I'm just going to show you type of thing.

But that fuel doesn't last.

And then the next fuel that people tend to use is I got to succeed.

But there's a little fear underneath that that's driving them, which is like, what if I don't?

Versus a knowing, you know, it's like if you give your all every day, your gifts will make room for you.

And it's like having a knowingness that things are going to be fine.

And then there's the next level, which is you start to know who you are.

You're not trying to prove it to yourself or other people.

And it's just you just want to help.

It's the difference between what I would call push motivation and pull, right?

Push is, I'm going to make this happen.

And it takes tremendous willpower.

And I know you have plenty of willpower.

I do as well.