Tony Robbins

Some people want to be significant more than anything else.

Some of you want to be loved.

Which you value most determine your direction in life.

If you want variety, you're going this way.

If you want security, you're going this way.

And direction determines destination or destiny.

So I know the minute I discover what's driving you, I know what your problems are, I know what your challenges are, I know what your opportunities are.

In addition to that,

you have a set of beliefs about how to meet those needs.

So if you're trying to meet your need for certainty, you might eat to do it, because you're freaked out and you eat, and all of a sudden you breathe and you calm down, or you smoke a cigarette.

You're killing yourself, but you take a breath in nice and slow and drop it out slow, you calm down.

Or you could do it by working out and you feel strong.

That's a positive way to do it.

Or you could trust that God is guiding you.

Or you could say, look, I've been through so much in my life, I always find the way.

You can get certainty in positive ways, neutral ways, or negative ways.

But your life is directed.

So once I know what's driving you and what your rules are, which is not hard to figure out very quickly, I know what the problem is and I know where to take you.

If someone's going to commit suicide, it's an obvious one.

What would you have to believe to commit suicide?