Tony Robbins

Because you would think that the children would feel less love.

They feel more love because they see secure love.

And they have a model that it can be done in the future, which most people don't have.

So she had that experience.

And that experience shapes so much at such a different level.

But the other part is people think of a love relationship as, you know, just the romance and the excitement of the beginning of a relationship.

And life is seasons.

I mean, think about what changed humanity from living in fear as hunter-gatherers hoping we can get enough food to survive to being able to stay, build a family, have a life, build a community, build a city, build a country.

The answer is one distinction, one recognition of a pattern, because that's what this is all about.

If you can recognize patterns, AI, whatever it is, if you can learn to use them, you'll have no fear.

Patterns show you that it's not random.

When you learn how to use them, you have power.

When you learn to create patterns, you become very powerful.

So there's patterns in parenting.

There's patterns in relationship.

The pattern that changed humanity was understanding the seasons.

till we understood that we were always in fear because you could plant something, but three quarters of the time it didn't work.

Until we came up with, oh, if I plant in the spring, not any other season, that's the only time.

If I do the right thing at the right time, I get the reward.

But if I do the right thing at the wrong time, which three quarters of the time was the wrong time, I get nothing.