Tony Robbins

At some point, you're going to have to find that inside yourself or you'll resent it in her.

Well, let's take, what's the quality in him that you've been attracted to?

Okay, great.

So where are you spontaneous?

Well, with two children, everything else, it starts to feel that way.

But let me ask this question.

Where could you be more spontaneous where it would bring more joy to your life?

Or more love or more fun?

So if you initiate those, and you are the initiator of them, now you may want him to do it as well and understand that, but if you initiate those and you do it because you want to and because you're identifying, hey, I am spontaneous, then you actually will feel more attracted to him.

Yes.

And then if he looks at those qualities in you and he takes more of those on and starts saying, yeah, that's in there.

Don't tell myself it's not in there just because I haven't expressed it, just because I've always tried to please everybody.

And part of it is, you know, you're, would you say you're 27?

27.

We're both 27.

You're 27 years old.

This is not being disrespectful.

I hope you can feel my state.

Yeah, yeah.

When I was 27, I thought I was a man.