Tony Robbins

What I mean by that is your ownership of yourself will increase as you confront difficult times and difficult situations, including the ones together, right?

Where you don't retreat, where you still find the way to move forward, where you find a way to serve something more than yourself.

That's what it means to be a man.

A man would die for his country, for his family, for his children, right?

Yeah.

without hesitancy that quality of a man not I'm here to get what I want if I don't get it I'm a pissy or I'm sad or I feel sorry for myself or I'm mad at you it's like graduating that place where you begin to realize life is about what I'm here to bring and the more that happens for you and part of that and it's not being disrespectful in any way I'm sure you can tell where I'm coming from

It just, it takes time.

It's an experience that you need to uncover.

You just don't have those experiences yet.

But life's gonna give them to you because you're gonna get calls, right?

The call to adventure.

It won't feel like adventure, but if you don't hesitate and you go on it and you immerse yourself and you learn those new skills and you slay your own dragons, you'll be the hero at a different level.

And then you'll have more to give her, more to give your kids.

When you said, you know, I stick around for my kids.

That wouldn't feel very good to her.

That was being honest, but at the same time, what is that?

I want her to know.

He's only saying that because he's 27 years old and because there are times when it feels uncertain with your confidence and certainty that he's enough.

And so underneath that, he's always enough for these kids, because they can't stay squat, two and three years old, and they're not gonna leave me, as I said, because you've never had teenagers.

So it's not that he loves you less, it's there's an unconscious fear in everybody that maybe I'm not enough.