Vanessa Marin

So this is the conversation where we talk about the initiation styles, like how is it that we like to be initiated.

Another really important thing that we talk about in this chapter is the two sex drive types.

Have you heard about this before?

Spontaneous and responsive.

Okay.

This is really important, very game-changing information, especially if you're somebody who thinks of yourself as being low desire or no desire.

So any women out there beating themselves up, this is the information for you.

So there are two different sex drive types, and they are based on how we feel desire.

So there are two different places that we feel desire.

So you feel mental desire.

This is the first one.

That's when the idea of sex just kind of pops into your head.

Oftentimes it feels random.

It's just the idea of sex sounds good.

Yeah, I think I want to have sex right now.

So that's the first place.

The second place is we feel it in our body.

So our body physically gets ready and excited for sex.

So that's things like getting wet, getting hard, heart rate starting to increase, breath rate starting to increase.

So the two sex drive types depend on where you feel desire first.