Vanessa Marin

It tickles when you tease me.

It doesn't feel good when you tease.

So this is a big misunderstanding.

But a lot of women, they're like, no, like, go slow.

Go to the point where you're like, I'm having to beg you for more.

That's what's sexy for us.

So if you're being intimate with your wife and your wife is like, slow down, you're going so fast.

Again, that's not going to feel good, right?

But instead, if a woman says something like, you know what is so sexy for me?

When you just go so slow, when you get me to the point where I am begging you for more.

If you're hearing that as a guy, okay, first of all, that sounds hot.

You're like, please give me more feedback.

This is great.

But it's also making you feel like you've already won because she's phrasing it in this way of, you know what's so hot when you do this.

And you can do this even if your partner hasn't done this.

They haven't done it in a while.

They've never done it.

It's okay.

You can still say it's so hot when you do this because it makes them feel like they've won.

They're doing a good job, right?