Vanessa Marin

Like nobody wants to have sex after a big date night out.

So this is something so practical, so simple, but it's literally game changing.

Have sex first.

Then go out on date night.

Then you're not going to be bloated, too full.

And also it feels like this sexy little surprise between the two of you, this little secret between the two of you.

So the date night just feels even more fun and flirty than it would otherwise.

Absolutely.

Yeah.

The way that we take care of our body heavily impacts our desire for sex, how we show up during sex.

And, you know, I can tell a little bit of Xander's story, too.

Like at the beginning of our relationship, he was in a really stressful job, working very long hours, trying to climb that corporate ladder, be a good provider.

And he started stress eating, you know, and all of a sudden it was he's gained a lot of weight.

He was feeling really uncomfortable in his own body.

And he would tell you the story, too.

This is not a secret or anything.

You know, he was just feeling really uncomfortable in his own skin.

And his sex drive really suffered because of that.

And I've gone through similar phases in my own life, too, where, you know, life gets in the way and you just kind of get off your routine and you really feel that impact.

So I think that's actually one of the amazing invitations that our sex life offers to us.