Vanessa Marin

And he would tell you the story, too.

This is not a secret or anything.

You know, he was just feeling really uncomfortable in his own skin.

And his sex drive really suffered because of that.

And I've gone through similar phases in my own life, too, where, you know, life gets in the way and you just kind of get off your routine and you really feel that impact.

So I think that's actually one of the amazing invitations that our sex life offers to us.

I'm sure we'll get into this more, but, you know, we have this tendency to think of sex as just this purely physical act.

But I really believe it's so much more than that.

And it invites us to take a look at how are we really treating our bodies?

How are we taking care of ourselves?

Because if you're treating your body like crap.

you're not gonna wanna be intimate with your partner.

You're not gonna be able to perform super well with your partner.

The desire's just not gonna be there.

So how we treat our bodies is an incredibly important part of our sex life.

A lot of it is just letting life get in the way, too.

You know, we're all busy.

We're all so busy.

We have a million things on our plate, a million things going through our minds at all times.

And it's very easy for us to just take our relationships for granted and think, like, you know, that's my person.