William Costello

So that's a bit of modern wisdom from Mammy Costler.

I thought it was funny when I was listening to the podcast that these women, their activism is very important to them and they were very frustrated

at what to me sounded like classically male typical status driving even in these circles.

So there are some men who are going to identify this as an opportunity to... Woke fishing.

Woke fishing, that's a nice term for it.

But the women were complaining that

The patterns of behavior they were engaging in, they were very interested in giving the speeches, running for positions of leadership.

And I was like, it's all just a different type of status game.

And the same frustrations with men will exist in these domains as anywhere else.

I'm willing to pay the honest signal of I'm foregoing a romantic partner because there are none who meet my standards on this subject.

And with kindness, usually there's target specificity that women usually prefer a partner who's really kind to them.

And they're less so keen on a partner who's kind to others, except if there's massive status associated with someone who's kind to others.

And that is in this arena, in this political arena today.

signaling your kindness to others is the high status.

This was a frustration that the women had about the men in these activism circles.

They said that they're

solutions to the problems of seeing a sad story coming out of Palestine was to mobilize some logistic held.

And the women said that they wanted an outpouring of emotion.

Sit in the emotion.

Sit in the emotion.