Xander Marin

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2,897 appearances 10 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 4d ago

Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

And that created a lot of friction between us and it also caused me to podcast-host

Feel really bad about myself because it's like, oh, this isn't the male stereotype. podcast-host

But once I once we started kind of breaking down these different types and I realized, wait, I do think about sex all the time and at very random moments. podcast-host

I think about sex in general. podcast-host

But when it comes to me actually wanting to have sex with Vanessa, I need to feel a certain level of connection. podcast-host

And so for me, then I started realizing, oh, okay, like I just, you know, I just need to be like, I just need to hang out with her for a couple of minutes. podcast-host

And then all of a sudden I'm like, oh hell yeah, I'm ready to go. podcast-host

And so that really that really helped me. podcast-host

And I think that helped you a lot understand me and kind of tailor the way that we talk about sex and the way that we have sex, um, so that we understand each other a lot better. podcast-host

I've seriously not tried any of these that I don't love. podcast-host

They're all so good. podcast-host

They're also good. podcast-host

Yeah, so this fits on top of the desire types that we just talked about. podcast-host

Because the desire types are about when and how you feel desire, but they don't say anything about specifically how you enjoy having sex initiated. podcast-host

So it's, you know, with the desire types, it's understanding, okay, this is when I might be more open to sex. podcast-host

This is when my partner and when and how my partner might be more open to sex. podcast-host

Then the adding the initiation styles on top of that is understanding, okay, now how do we actually get it started? podcast-host

What language do we use? podcast-host

What energy do we use? podcast-host

So this is getting even more like tactical, like actually getting down to the nuts and bolts of okay, what do you say? podcast-host

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