Xander Marin

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2,897 appearances 10 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 4d ago

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

How do you say it? podcast-host

Now that I understand my partner's desire type and I understand podcast-host

When the highest likelihood is podcast-host

for them to be open to sex or open to being turned on. podcast-host

Now you use the initiation styles to go, okay, now this is how I know that they like to get it started. podcast-host

Yeah, well, but we are tot we're totally different. podcast-host

Not totally, but we are partially different when it comes to the desire types. podcast-host

Yeah, so I think that you can, as Vanessa describes that, you can probably start to see or understand really how this differs, how this is an important piece of information to have on top of the desire types. podcast-host

Because remember when we were talking about desire types, we talked about that first one where I was like, you know, so hey, someone that is a brain and physical first desire type, they might, you know, they might be really open to any kind of initiation. podcast-host

or being turned, you know, something that might turn them on in any given moment. podcast-host

But now that you've heard all of these different initiation styles, what you would actually say at any given random moment could be very different based on any of those. podcast-host

Is it something that is more connection? podcast-host

Is it something where it's like, where it's more you leading with how much you're desiring them? podcast-host

Or is it you leading with something more like playful? podcast-host

Sexy? podcast-host

Um, is it, you know, something like, hey, I wanna, I wanna take care of you tonight? podcast-host

Like this is sort of like peeling back the onion. podcast-host

You you we all think like, oh yeah, no, this sex stuff is supposed to be really simple. podcast-host

Like you just say something sexy or you wear something sexy, and that's that. podcast-host

But I think as you start to understand more and more about these kind of ways, different types that we are and different attributes that we have, all of a sudden it's like, oh yeah. podcast-host

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