Xander Marin
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2,897 appearances
10 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 4d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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No, there actually is a little more complexity in here than most people give credit for.
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And it's if we can just do a little bit of laid legwork to start to understand how we differ from our partner, all of a sudden it's like, oh, I could go into initiating sex or I could go into trying to turn my partner on in a way where I am.
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You know, I'm I can't say you're ever guaranteeing yourself success, but w you can raise the chances of success by so much by understanding these things.
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regardless of their desire type, regardless of their initiation style.
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You can use those things to help you with maybe tailoring the type of flirting or when to flirt, but God, so many of us forget about flirting, or it's like, oh, this is just something you do early on.
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does sex feel like so much work?
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Well, because all the things that lead up to it feel like work to you.
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So of course it feels like work.
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Yeah.
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up the twenty best pickup lines.
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Well, I think this is where you might wanna look to the initiation styles for hints as to what type of flirting might land the best. 'Cause for us, we told you, Vanessa and I are both play with me types.
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Dumb jokes about sex are great.
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They're funny to us.
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Yeah.
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Right?
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But if you are a desire, if your partner is a desire me type and you're constantly making like that's what she said jokes.
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Your partner's probably gonna be like, all right, come on, like I like I wanna feel wanted.
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I don't want you to they might f actually feel like you're trivializing sex rather than actually wanting them.
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Or if your partner's a take care of me type,
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They might actually prefer you flirt or make kind of suggestive comments around taking care of stuff around the house for them or taking care of them in general.
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