Xander Marin

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2,897 appearances 10 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 5d ago

Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

So, you know, maybe more flirtation around, oh, you want me to draw like a nice sexy bath for you? podcast-host

Or, oh, do you want me to podcast-host

Take the trash out with my shirt off or something like that. podcast-host

Something you know more along those lines might land better with them. podcast-host

So I think this is where, yeah, try to draw some hints from that. podcast-host

And and remember. podcast-host

Flirtation, similar to initiation, is the way that we would want someone to flirt with us, may not and is very likely not to be the way that your partner wants to be flirted with. podcast-host

So flirting is not about you don't flirt with your partner to get some personal enjoyment out of it. podcast-host

You are looking for the energy that gets created by the two of you from you doing that. podcast-host

You're trying to turn things up a notch within them. podcast-host

so that you can then feed off of that energy. podcast-host

So I think a lot of people get tripped up here and they go, oh well, it just doesn't feel authentic podcast-host

flirt. podcast-host

It's flirting is not about authenticity. podcast-host

Flirting is about trying to reach your partner with a certain energy that's gonna resonate with them so that you then get something back energetically from them. podcast-host

If you are trying to flirt in a way that's like meant to turn you on, you're doing it wrong. podcast-host

And that's probably why you're butting heads with your partner and having problems. podcast-host

Wanna do me like a hostage with this tape on podcast-host

Unless you're playing out a very specific fantasy, probably better to do it before all those nighttime products go on. podcast-host

Well and also you're talking about, you know, you're talking about right before bed. podcast-host

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