Xander Marin
speaker
2,897 appearances
10 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 5d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Talking about like, you know, bringing it back to blockages, the very first thing you talked about, even if your partner is almost always open to it.
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If you're waiting till the end of the night, you are still ensuring that a major blockage, which is just exhaustion and tiredness, is likely in the way.
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Who cares if they're always open to it, if they're dead tired, right?
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Like it's just not gonna happen.
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If you're like, dude, I'm already half asleep.
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Like, come on, I'm so tired.
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I'm I've been lacking sleep the whole last week.
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Like, I'm trying to get some sleep.
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Like, you're shooting.
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yourself in the foot by waiting because that is just you're you're guaranteeing that w a major blockage that impacts everyone, tiredness, is gonna be present.
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Mm-hmm.
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I just want you to want it when I want it.
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Yeah, so I think that if you are listening to this podcast and you, as of right now in your relationship, are identifying as a higher desire partner, usually, I'm not saying a hundred percent of the time, but usually that person that is a higher desire partner likely has more of a brain first desire type.
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They are a bit more spontaneous when it comes to when the idea of sex sounds.
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Because relative to that, if your partner is a body first desire type, they need to get turned on in their body before the idea of sex sounds good.
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You will often perceive there to be a difference in sex drive, even though we would argue very often there is not actually a difference.
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The real difference is just you have different types and you are approaching them from a spontaneous point of view.
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And from a spontaneous point of view, a body-first desire type is not likely ever going to be turned on in that moment.
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And so I think that.
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the importance of understanding yourself rather than fixating on your partner.
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