Zach Brittle
speaker
637 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 27 Jul
Zach Brittle’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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When people have never seen how to repair, then it's going to come back and bite them.
You know, so people need to learn how to repair.
And if we need to pick a fight, particularly in therapy, I'll do that because it's important, even if that they can surface some of the things that push buttons that they haven't started pushing for each other.
Appreciate that it's more important for me to go to bed feeling connected to you than it is for me to win this.
That's a hard thing for people to wrap their heads around sometimes.
Like a terrible piece of marriage advice is don't go to bed angry.
I think sometimes you should go to bed angry.
It may mean that you sleep fitfully, but it's better than staying up until 3, 4 a.m.,
Totally.
It's not taking yourself too seriously.
It's going ahead and playing the long game.
I think there are tactical things that you can do.
Like for me, repair is really an investigation.
And what do we both want?
I want the thing that we both want.
Like, what is that?
I don't run experiments, but I'll be, I will drop into the part of me that says, okay, I'm going to assume for the next 10 minutes or so that you're correct.
That what you're saying is actually right and good.
And that there's something for me to learn from it.
And I just toss off the part of my brain that needs to rebuke that because if I can't accept influence, we're not going to achieve repair.
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