Zach Brittle

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637 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 27 Jul

Zach Brittle’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Are we going to have an argument right now?

Are we just going to kind of be cozy people right now?

Are we going to try and have more intimate time right now?

One of my favorite questions is, is now a good time?

If two people walk into a moment and for one of them, it's a good time for an argument.

For the other one, it's not a good time for an argument.

Or one of them, it's a good time for sex.

And the other one is not a good time for sex.

Setting the context is really critical.

So I don't think you have to choose between either.

Or I think you have to choose what are we doing.

And when.

Yeah.

If you're bad at this.

being really explicit about it is helpful early on.

And then sometimes you create the right kind of signals and rhythms and codes for one another that help you do that.

And in my practice, I'm not chasing like enthusiasm.

I'm chasing intimacy.

It doesn't have to be fun and adventurous all the time, but intimacy is the thing that we're really chasing.

And that's a more subtle piece of work.

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