Zach Brittle
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637 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 27 Jul
Zach Brittle’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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fluff off or we'll fix it later kind of things.
And when they actually don't do the work of fixing it later, then that calcifies and it becomes really problematic for people.
So do they start off hating each other?
No, but I do think that they start off without really knowing each other.
This is where I hope I'm setting my kids up in a successful way to really be able to ask the right questions and have the right boundaries and kind of make sure that they are really clear about their own
their own sense of what works for them and what doesn't in order to vet that against the relationship that they're in.
Are there tactical things?
100%.
I don't remember when it was, but at the New York Times, I think it counted off these like 20 questions.
So, I mean, you can, can you do that?
Sure.
But you still have to live in life with people.
And, you know, you have to know how to
do challenges.
One of the coolest pieces of advice that I ever got when I was a young person was don't ever try to get into a long-term relationship with somebody without first spending a major holiday at their home with their family.
Like go be in their environment and see the levers that are being pulled around them in this kind of setting and see what you can learn.
It's not a test, but it is an opportunity.
That is a course where people really kind of settle into their, like, what are they taking care of?
What do they care about?
What's triggering for them?
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