Zach Brittle
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637 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 27 Jul
Zach Brittle’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So I think there's lots of ways you can get to know people.
Yeah, I love it.
What she's talking about is leverage.
I will stay in this relationship on these terms, but I won't stay in this relationship on these other terms.
Then you want to stay in the relationship.
That's amazing.
Yes, I think that's very noble and wise and good.
But if you've gone in the most healthy way you know how about the process of change and it's not changing and what you decide is, well, I'm not going to leave, so I guess I'll just tolerate whatever.
What is that?
That's not, that's you saying I'd rather be in this relationship than I'd rather be a whole person.
And, you know, at the end of the day, people will tell me I want this and I go, okay, well, and maybe I'll say, it doesn't seem like you can have it with this guy.
He's not going to quit drinking ever.
He just literally told you he's not going to quit drinking.
So now do you really want to stay or do you not want to stay?
Well, I don't want to leave.
I go, okay.
Well, then that's actually the thing that's more important to you is how do I stay in this relationship?
And then you have to figure that out.
That's now the work.
I don't denigrate anybody's priorities, but if people say, this has to change or I'm leaving, and then they say, but okay, no, I'm not really leaving, then this doesn't have to change.
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