Zerky
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I think a lot of people get into these kind of patterns of cycling through partners or cycling through friendships and different dynamics because they're just trying to find a reason To believe they're a good person and they're worthy of something. And everyone's worthy of something. Everyone's worthy of love. Everyone's worthy of respect.
I think a lot of people get into these kind of patterns of cycling through partners or cycling through friendships and different dynamics because they're just trying to find a reason To believe they're a good person and they're worthy of something. And everyone's worthy of something. Everyone's worthy of love. Everyone's worthy of respect.
Everyone's worthy of being seen as an equal, as somebody that you can appreciate. But that only happens if you do that yourself, if you view yourself that way. Because if you don't... You won't get it from the people that you're seeking it from.
Everyone's worthy of being seen as an equal, as somebody that you can appreciate. But that only happens if you do that yourself, if you view yourself that way. Because if you don't... You won't get it from the people that you're seeking it from.
Everyone's worthy of being seen as an equal, as somebody that you can appreciate. But that only happens if you do that yourself, if you view yourself that way. Because if you don't... You won't get it from the people that you're seeking it from.
Even if you do find somebody who appreciates you for you, you might not be able to reciprocate that kind of feeling and you won't have a special connection and a special bond. It is such a weird thing.
Even if you do find somebody who appreciates you for you, you might not be able to reciprocate that kind of feeling and you won't have a special connection and a special bond. It is such a weird thing.
Even if you do find somebody who appreciates you for you, you might not be able to reciprocate that kind of feeling and you won't have a special connection and a special bond. It is such a weird thing.
And at one point, you have to realize how many mistakes, how many partners that were the worst can you go through until you realize, yo, I got to put some accountability on myself and I got to realize that low-key, I'm picking these people. Low-key, I'm putting myself in certain situations that are not good for me.
And at one point, you have to realize how many mistakes, how many partners that were the worst can you go through until you realize, yo, I got to put some accountability on myself and I got to realize that low-key, I'm picking these people. Low-key, I'm putting myself in certain situations that are not good for me.
And at one point, you have to realize how many mistakes, how many partners that were the worst can you go through until you realize, yo, I got to put some accountability on myself and I got to realize that low-key, I'm picking these people. Low-key, I'm putting myself in certain situations that are not good for me.
We like to put so much blame into the ether of the experience that is being young and trying to find somebody, right? And oftentimes we like to, you know, shift the blame on something else. It's like stepping into another portal and being like, I got blown up by a ghast. What? There's a zombie pigman that's going after me. You stepped into the portal. What did you think was going to happen?
We like to put so much blame into the ether of the experience that is being young and trying to find somebody, right? And oftentimes we like to, you know, shift the blame on something else. It's like stepping into another portal and being like, I got blown up by a ghast. What? There's a zombie pigman that's going after me. You stepped into the portal. What did you think was going to happen?
We like to put so much blame into the ether of the experience that is being young and trying to find somebody, right? And oftentimes we like to, you know, shift the blame on something else. It's like stepping into another portal and being like, I got blown up by a ghast. What? There's a zombie pigman that's going after me. You stepped into the portal. What did you think was going to happen?
You didn't even take the time to get the right tools. You didn't even get diamond armor. You don't have a diamond sword. You don't have a bow and arrow to defeat the ghasts. And you're confused and angry when something happens. I mean, is that enough? Maybe it's not. Maybe you're not ready for that kind of realization. And that's okay. That's fine.
You didn't even take the time to get the right tools. You didn't even get diamond armor. You don't have a diamond sword. You don't have a bow and arrow to defeat the ghasts. And you're confused and angry when something happens. I mean, is that enough? Maybe it's not. Maybe you're not ready for that kind of realization. And that's okay. That's fine.
You didn't even take the time to get the right tools. You didn't even get diamond armor. You don't have a diamond sword. You don't have a bow and arrow to defeat the ghasts. And you're confused and angry when something happens. I mean, is that enough? Maybe it's not. Maybe you're not ready for that kind of realization. And that's okay. That's fine.
But what's not fine is knowing there's a problem, knowing that there's a solution to it, and avoiding it. and complaining about it. Listen, if you want to avoid it, you don't want to change your ways. There's a certain kind of high you get, right? Certain kind of rush you get from being thrown around and things not working out. That's great. That's fine.
But what's not fine is knowing there's a problem, knowing that there's a solution to it, and avoiding it. and complaining about it. Listen, if you want to avoid it, you don't want to change your ways. There's a certain kind of high you get, right? Certain kind of rush you get from being thrown around and things not working out. That's great. That's fine.
But what's not fine is knowing there's a problem, knowing that there's a solution to it, and avoiding it. and complaining about it. Listen, if you want to avoid it, you don't want to change your ways. There's a certain kind of high you get, right? Certain kind of rush you get from being thrown around and things not working out. That's great. That's fine.