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Chapter 1: What are the hosts' initial reactions to the presidential election?
We ain't got no guests today.
We ain't got no guests today. I know. That's right. That's right. That's right. You know what, though? Our intro sound like the beginning of a fire rap song.
It is, and we did say that on the last solo episode that we gonna get in the booth. Like y'all did not.
Like y'all did not do. Y'all did not get in the booth big. So obviously... I didn't say... That's all right. I did it. I did good.
So obviously we just talked about this last week, but y'all know we be recording multiple episodes in a day, so we are still in shock.
I'm shook.
We are still shooketh. We discussed it a little bit on last week's episode, but I am just still upset. So y'all just have to bear with my energy today. I have a lot going on. But good news is by the time y'all see this.
Bro, you finna piss. Delete it. Delete the curse word, Javi. Your finna piss me off, okay?
But you look nice. I like it. Thank you. It's giving. Shout out to Raquel.
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Chapter 2: What insights are shared about the Megan Thee Stallion documentary?
Because I went to an election party. I'm not kidding. It was about this big. I'm not casting. Did y'all drink the whole thing? No, we didn't. I made some, we had some Camalaritas, and they were actually really good. I took a page from Ty's book. I was bartending in there. I did my thing, and they were really good. They drank them all. I know that's right. Yeah.
When you get in your bartending bag, you was bartending the other day. Yeah. Yeah. You should have put the hair behind your ear. Yeah. Okay, so anyways, I have some things I want to talk about before we get to the topics today. First, let's do a catch up. What you been up to? What's going on? What's tea? You know what? I ain't really been up to nothing much, to be honest.
I'm just taking it day by day. I can't believe these results. I am as appalled as you are. It's crazy times that we living in. One thing I will say, though, we have our passports and our shots. So we might go out the country and not come back. I'm going out the... I got a one-way. No, I know you leaving. Yeah. Like, you about to go. I... Might have to come meet you. Let's do it.
And we might have to build a new life outside of America. You know what? At this point, I feel like poor minds is a machine. It runs.
I'm sure I can find a Brazilian Javi. Javi's close to Brazilian anyway. Javier is a Hispanic. It's a Hispanic name?
Javier is a Hispanic name. And Javi got some good hair. I see, you know... No, you don't. I feel like Yvette is a Hispanic name.
It is, Yvette. And Yvette can cook. Yeah. She's a abueleta.
How do you say it? Abuelita? She's more of a T.O. A T.O. I mean, a T.O. A T.O. A T.O. A T.O. She's a T.O. She a T. She old enough to be an abuelita. You know, Ty knows how to shake a good mark. We can take the crew. We can take this show on the road, you guys. You down, AWOL? AWOL ready to go. We're going to have to change your name, though. That ain't going to work. What is it going to be?
Alejandro, Alejandro. Do y'all remember that song by Lady Gaga? Alejandro.
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Chapter 3: How do the hosts navigate personal grief and loss?
She didn't post like the beef with Nikki. She didn't post her with party because none of that matters.
Yeah.
What hurt her was that Kelsey sat on that stand and act like you didn't know nothing. And I could have lost my life. And no matter what beef or whatever transpired, you could have served justice and made sure that justice was served a lot easier. Well, you know what justice was served? It was. No, I'm saying you know what justice was served. At the end of the day, losers are going to be losers.
Only for you to be online taking a whole photo shoot with Nicki's shoes and Nicki to come out and say, I didn't ask her to do that. Because one thing I can say about Nicki, Nicki on tour, she doing her thing. Like, you was trying to be shady. You thought Nicki was finna kiki with you, but that... And shout out to Nicki. Yeah. We love us some Meg, and we love us some Nicki.
Yeah, we don't choose sides over here, so... Hopefully, I really hope they can get cool at some point, because a collab would be fire. Hot Girl Summer was a bop, and we need to run it back. A collab, a new collab would be fire. But either way that goes, last point I want to make, um... You called me... Well, no, I think I called... We talked the next day, maybe after the documentary.
No, because I hadn't... I don't think I had... Oh, oh, yeah. I hadn't watched it yet. Yeah. But you were... Your reaction... Oh, my God. Please, I don't want to get emotional. This is not... Bitch, I got my makeup done and I got lashes on. We don't cry on this stuff. Oh, I don't want to get... I don't want to get emotional, but, like, your... Your response... Maybe it's the liquid.
Okay, it probably is. You know I be crying for real. Like, what the fuck going on? Ooh! Okay. So, like, your response was just so... Thank you, Ty. Your response was just so triggering for me. Um... Because... Oh, my God. What the fuck is going on? This so bad. No, you about to start crying, too. No, I'm not. You are. My tears don't fall, bitch. Oh, my God. Okay, so... Maybe this is a good thing.
Because I feel like people don't really see this side of me. Yeah, it's okay. Some people think I don't have the side, which you see this side of me all the time. All the time. But no, it's okay. We needed to talk about it. Oh, my God. So... You've been through so much. We both have, you know, like losing my dad was so fucking hard.
And then it's like I kind of was prepared for it a little bit because I knew my dad was sick. Yeah. But like still when it happened, it was like, what the fuck? Yeah. Yeah. You know, the crazy thing about me. I recorded the same day. And then we didn't talk about it for, like, two months or whatever. A lot of people didn't even know. Because I'm just that type of person.
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Chapter 4: What are the hosts' opinions on physical punishment in parenting?
Like, no, it wasn't my mom, but it was my dad. And like, I knew this nigga my whole life. Like, I never knew a life without him. I never knew a life where I couldn't call my dad, talk to him, go see him, whatever. And then I lost this person. But it's just interesting the difference in support that we get. You know, like, you losing your mom versus me losing my dad.
It's just interesting when I be peeping it from like, The comments and all of that stuff. It's just an interesting thing. It's interesting because I think people don't feel like they need to offer the same support. Like you said, when you lose your dad versus when you lose your mom. It's like when it's your mom, it's like, oh my God. I think it's like that, though.
Maybe because she carried you, she birthed you. It's just a different type of relationship. It's a different type of relationship, and I think it's different with men. But to me, that's sad. And going back to the conversation that we had with the ball, I mean, the bell, it's like... Why though?
Men who are present in the home, men who are real fathers, when you lose your dad, it's the same effect on the person. Yeah. It's the same thing. It's a huge loss. Yeah. But why... I mean, I knew that because I'm close to you and I saw how bad it was. I saw how bad it was for you. Affected me. Yeah. And like I said, I think that's more of just like a community thing. And...
Just, I think it's how we present as well. You're strong and they be... My sister is the same way. In the family, when we go around the family, everybody be crowding around me because I'm just... I've always been open about my struggles and I'm sensitive, but I'm always like, if I'm going through it, I let you know. My sister is very much like... I got to pick it up. I got two boys.
I got to keep it pushing. That Taurus energy. She's like, I got to keep it pushing. Like, I can't stop. I can't, which we're both the same like that. But my sister's just like. I was going to say, give yourself a little more credit because you are like that. Yeah, I mean, I am like that to a certain extent. I think you like that front-facing. Yeah, yeah, front-facing.
You're going to go home and cry. Yeah, I'm definitely going to go home and cry. But one thing I will say about you, though, bitch, you're going to get in the booth.
No, I'm going to get in the booth, bitch. Y'all didn't. I'm not done with y'all yet.
But I will say, I get it, though, because everybody's like, oh, Dre don't give a fuck about nothing. She's strong. She this, she that. So not saying that that's okay. And I am strong, but like... But still, I definitely, 1,000%. Like, I never thought about that. But now that you say that, it does make sense. But like I said, I think that's just how people perceive us.
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Chapter 5: How do the hosts discuss mental health and seeking help?
Yeah, he used to always, like, have my back. Like, my dad was the reason that I didn't get a lot of whoopings because he would talk my mama down. So he was like, no, just calm down. I could hear it. He was like, no, just calm down. I was in the sub. Yeah, she ain't gonna come in here. My daddy got my back. Yeah, I ain't worried about her. Yeah, you are a mess.
And then she came in there with that fucking... And you was wet. And I was wet and naked. Good. You deserved it. Naked and afraid. That was me, bitch. You was the first season. I was the first season of Naked and Afraid, bitch. Fuck what they talk about right now. Okay, so... Let's go back to 2001. Are you going to whoop your kids, though, whenever you have kids? No. Exactly.
I want to try... Because, like, it was more... It was more frightening than anything. but not frightening enough to where I still wasn't going to cut up. Hello. That's what I'm saying. Like, I'm not going to lie. I vividly remember the whoopings, but it didn't stop me from being bad. No. You know what really stopped me more? When I would get shit taken away. Yes.
Like, when I would get punished and my mom would take, well, she would be like, are we taking your TV out your room?
You can watch Smart Guy. Life is about to end. Or does. She's a smart guy. Why does she sing that intro so bad? She sang really bad on that intro. Who was that?
I don't know. Why do you remember that? That was so bad. I do not even remember that shit. Tyena is what fucked me up. That was my shit. Tyena and As Told by Ginger. Someone once told me that crap. It's always greener. On the other side. It was, I mean, that's what really used to fuck me up. Yeah, that one messed you up. That, not being able to play Snake on my Nokia. Yo. Okay. Ayy.
So it's just like, that used to fuck me up more than anything. Not being able to go outside, hang out with my friends. When I couldn't go to the skate rink, I used to think my world was going to end. And especially when you go to school on Monday, and they was like, oh yeah, we had such a good time. And you just sitting there like, can't relate. I'm so lame.
That used to fuck me up more than whooping. Let me tell you why I'm not whooping my kids. I have two nephews, okay? Okay. And one of them bad. Jackson and Rod, right? I can... So why you don't want to whoop the bad? Because... Let me tell you why. I... Let me tell you how I used to spank Jackson. Because you always say he bad. Let me tell you how I used to spank Jackson. I used to be like this...
And that's what I would do to him. And it wasn't a spanking for real, but I couldn't spank him because he was just my sweet, that's my, oh, I will cry. My sweet baby. But you always say he's sweet. And I never had to spank him. I never spanked Jackson. My sister, my sister don't spank either one of them. Never spanked Jackson.
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Chapter 6: What are the hosts' thoughts on community and support systems?
That's why... I was going to say India Arie need to come back, but she be wild sometimes. Why does she be wildin'?
She be sayin' some crazy shit.
Well, what I will say is... What was it? Sometimes I comb my hair and sometimes I don't. Ate that up. Something about women who play the guitar. Doesn't Summer Walker play the guitar? Do she? Yes. Yes. I mean, it's something about women that play the guitar. They be wildin' though. India Arie is just... That's an artist. That's when we used to make music. A beautiful woman inside and out.
Beautiful.
Like... Well, you don't... You can't say inside. You don't know her. You don't know that lady. Well, from what I see, but she's beautiful on the outside. I loved her. I remember growing up, I'm like, from what I see, I think she is beautiful on the inside and out. Well, what I see, she used to be online wild, and that's why I said what I said. But beautiful lady.
I used to love her hair and how she would just, like, have it up. The wraps. The big earrings. I was like, oh, my God. And the skin tone. Yes. I'm like, that was like, when I used to look at her, I'm like, that is what, like a beautiful woman. Like, that's a beautiful woman. Shake your legs, though. Don't listen to that part. I see. Brown skin was a hit. Okay.
Yeah, my bop of the week, I love you, I'm sorry, Gracie Abrams. It's like going crazy on TikTok, and it's such a good song. It's like a little indie song, so I think y'all will like it. Okay. You know what I had? No, we're not doing this. Let's rap. Okay, real quick, though. I got to go to Brazil, bitch. This is my sorry for 2004. And I ain't going to mess up no more this year.
I'm going to take my time to make it real clear. I'm sorry for May.
I'm sorry. For June. I'm sorry. For July. I'm sorry. In case I don't tell you. Well, that song that you had reminded me of that because it was like, I love you, I'm sorry. And I was like, what about Ruben Stutter? Somebody said on Twitter the other day, and I concur, they said Ruben Stutter ain't nothing. I mean, Rod Wave ain't nothing but Ruben Stutter. Why was I getting my lashes done?
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