Ep. 6: How to Ask Better Questions & Get Better Therapy Outcomes

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Why do therapists often focus on negative outcomes instead of solutions?

Chris Winger 0:08
What's up everyone? Welcome to Making the Shift.
Sensory SLP 0:11
Where we listen to autistic voices,
Chris Winger 0:14
explore new therapy ideas,
Sensory SLP 0:15
and share neurodiversity affirming methods and strengths-based approaches to support autistic kids.
Chris Winger 0:21
Because we're not here to try and quote fix kids.
Sensory SLP 0:25
We are here to love them, embrace them, and celebrate them for who they are. I'm Jesse Ginsburg, sensory integration trained SLP, founder of a top-rated speech therapy clinic in Los Angeles, and creator of the Inside Out Sensory Certificate for SLPs.
Chris Winger 0:40
And I'm Chris Winger, also known as Speech Dude, high school SLP and creator of the Dynamic Assessment for Social Emotional Learning. Are you ready to make the shift?
Sensory SLP 0:52
Let's do it.
Sensory SLP 1:00
Hi everyone, welcome to episode six of Making the Shift.
Chris Winger 1:06
Yes, we've made it. It's our um Tuesday as we are slowly transitioning into Drum roll please. Summer for me.
Sensory SLP 1:16
Yeah, I was gonna say speak for yourself.
Chris Winger 1:19
Yes, life is going to be in uh the fast lane and the carpool lane for me coming up next week. It's gonna be great. Put in cruise control, baby.
Sensory SLP 1:30
It's so funny because you're someone who I think would actually enjoy having all that time off 'cause you keep busy. So much. But for me, it's like the idea of it sounds great. But then even if it's just one sick day, I wake up and I'm like, Well, what am I gonna do today?
Chris Winger 1:45
That's true. You know, I am lucky because I feel like it's not just my like downtime. When it's summertime, I'm still doing stuff. I'm still like Putting some effort into growing my brain.
Sensory SLP 1:59
I was gonna say, yeah, you that's true.
Chris Winger 2:02
You know? It could be
Sensory SLP 2:03
like the other day I was on a call in here and I looked out the window and he was responsible for all three kids. And instead of just like sitting down, you were having them water all the flowers in the garden and like put some spray on the plants. I don't know.
Chris Winger 2:20
All that good stuff, yeah. You know, actually that kind of brings us into our topic for today because when I do things with the kids, when I do things around the house, when I do things at work. All of those things are based upon my thoughts. And the thoughts that we have are just basically a series of questions and answers. And so the things that I do with the kids in the backyard, the things that we do when we go out, when we go, you know, when I go off to work, that's basically how all of our lives work, right? So I constantly try to improve.

How do personal life challenges shape the way we ask questions in therapy?

Chris Winger 2:56
those thoughts, which are basically improving the questions. That's kind of how it works. So um that's really what we're going to talk about a little bit today, but we were going to share some things, um, maybe on a little bit more of a of a personal note. To get today um Put into fifth gear, right?
Sensory SLP 3:15
know
Chris Winger 3:15
what that means.
Sensory SLP 3:16
Is that a is that a real gear?
Chris Winger 3:18
Fifth gear?
Sensory SLP 3:19
See, you would know only. Oh, I was gonna say only stick people would know that, right?
Chris Winger 3:24
No, no, no, no. I think country music fans know that. Put it in the fifth year.
Sensory SLP 3:29
Um, but yeah, I think that you know, for us these conversations are so important because This is almost like one of those things that's why it's so near and dear to our heart, I guess. This topic that has improved our lives so much is learning about the quality of the questions that we're asking. Because, you know, when we first started dating, these were some of the conversations we were having. And Just to put it into perspective for you, like I mean, both of us were had been through probably like the hardest times in our lives. Yeah. Right. I was divorced. I had two young kids. I was transitioning between having them from From having them with me a hundred percent of the time to now fifty percent of the time, which is so hard.
Sensory SLP 4:18
I was trying to keep my speech therapy clinic open in the height of COVID while trying to start a new business. Like there were so many hard things going on. And same with you.
Chris Winger 4:30
Yeah. I mean my situation just prior years was my dad. had uh passed away from a fluke heart attack months following that I went through a divorce. You know, then uh you know just a couple of years after that COVID hit, working from home, no longer at work, which was my source of energy, being in person with students, a lot of things came up.

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