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Chapter 1: What does it mean when you're 'just friends'?
if you are texting each other all day but you swear you're just friends stop the cat the feeling of someone being into you it's addicting it's like candy crush it's like your mom or your dad who sits in front of the tv ipad in hand and plays Candy Crush. It's a feeling that your longing is finally answered. There's someone that gets you. They understand all the inside jokes.
They understand... When you feel down, they know. You don't even have to say, hey, do you want to get canes? They look at you. You get in the car and they look at you and they say, canes? And you say, Caniac Combo. And they say famously. That is...
is love and a lot of us we have to open ourselves up to the possibility of someone liking us to know that they're into us because i'm gonna be real sometimes my self-confidence is at an all-time low i look at myself and i'm like who would like me who would who want me who want me Because if you don't even want yourself, makes complete sense. Why would somebody want you?
Why would someone want to tap in? They wouldn't. So if you don't accept that within yourself, this, yeah, forget about it. And after all this time, I'm still into you. They're into you. Congratulations, you've won. They have a crush on you. Uh, how do I know that? You don't. You never know. But you can have a hunch. And that's what today's Yap is about.
Chapter 2: How can you tell if someone has a crush on you?
When you have a hunch that somebody likes you, that someone has a crush on you, they want you to be their bae, their before anyone else. You're gonna be an OTP, one true pair. But you're waffling. You're sitting there dwindling your thumbs looking at the new Epic Games Fortnite skin, which valid because Fortnite is awesome. But they're into you. They're into you.
If you have a hunch they're into you, they're probably into you. Just saying. If every time you go to your class and you guys make eye contact and you're giggling, oh my God. Those are the feelings you live for. They're into you. I'm just telling you. Do with that what you want. I'm just telling you. If you are texting each other all day, but you swear you're just friends, stop the cap.
Chapter 3: Why is self-acceptance important in dating?
Stop the cap. Do I need to be a soundboard? Stop the cap. They're into you and you shouldn't be denying that experience in your life because of the past or because of what someone on the interwebs tells you. Don't date until you're 37. Date like yesterday. Go on a date with the girl in your class, the guy in your class, whoever that you've had your eye on. Just ask. Yeah, but what if it goes bad?
Chapter 4: What should you do if you suspect someone likes you?
You'll explore a new part of town. You'll go to a new restaurant. You'll spend $60 at Chili's. Like me. And you won't regret it. Because that's what it's about. Because they are into you and they're waiting, quite frankly. They're waiting for you to ask. And maybe they'll say no. And that's okay. But it's better to ask than to let yourself believe. Well, it was always no.
Chapter 5: How can you make the first move in dating?
Because let's be real, you don't know that. You got no clue.
Chapter 6: What are some fun date ideas?
All right. They're into you. Where do you take her on a date? Where do you take him on a date? That's a great question. Get creative.
Get creative. Picnic. Hashtag free. Going on a walk. Hashtag free. There's levels. All right. Now we're going to the $10, $20 range. Coffee. A little latte. Put on a sweater. Some jeans. Some Vans. Come on now. It's that time of year. Pumpkin spice. Thank you. Next. Moving up a little bit more. All right, $20, $40 range.
Now, okay, if you're going on a date for $20 to $40, you're getting kind of serious, all right? You're getting some territory. Maybe a dinner. Maybe a lunch. Maybe a brekkie. Brunch. Brekkie no hill. $60, Chili's. I've already done it. I did the work for you. I got two appetizers and two drinks. $60 at Chili's. Don't do what Unc did. Go a little cheaper, okay?
There's levels and that was not a good level to play on. You know when you play a video game and you play like a really hard level and you're like, I'm not ready for this boss? That was me. That was me. Don't stress yourself out with it too. Go in with an open mind. Whatever happens, happens. A lot of us tweak. What if she doesn't like me? What if she thinks that my passions are weird?
You have no control over that. And at some point you just got, hey, you just be like, all right, this is not hitting. You know, I'm at the casino, I'm gambling. I've lost $450,000 and my mortgage is done. It's not hitting. It is what it is, you know? Damn. What is going on, dude? This is nuts. The wind is crazy. But you know what else is crazy? That they're into you.
And you're not doing anything about it, man. Hey, and if you're like, I wish that this would show up on his For You page. I wish that he would see this. Send it to him. Send it to him. I dare you. I triple, double, dog dare you If you want, don't feel pressured. If you don't want to send it to him, that's fine. He's going to be the one that got away.
We going to keep playing eye tag or are you going to holler at your boy? Hashtag facts. No printer. No Espen, no Canon printer. Are we going to keep playing eye tag or are you going to holler at your boy? I wasn't even looking at you. Okay, that's a little awkward. That's fine. We move on. They're into you, you know it. Maybe they don't show it. But if you don't allow it, you won't grow it.
It's gotta come right here. You gotta be like, I'm worthy for this. It's time I go on a date. It's time I go to that Chili's and I pay $60. It's time. Because if it's not now, when will it be? And I get it. Some of us go through a breakup and we need time to chill. We need time to figure out who we are. Take your time. There's no rush.
But don't deny yourself something good because you're trying to be perfect because someone has told you you're not good enough. You're good enough. You'll always be good enough. There is no perfect. You either do it or you don't. So if they are into you, tap in. Zerky show. I didn't say it last time, so I'm gonna say it twice. I love you, I love you. Two announcements.
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