Cam Fraser
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418 appearances
8 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2021
last heard Aug 2022
Cam Fraser’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That can be a lot easier for someone to navigate in the kind of throes of passion, so to speak.
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yeah there's this kind of narrative around male sexuality that it's very straightforward and simple and not complicated and that guys can just uh masturbate furiously until they have this five second sticky white crotch sneeze and that's kind of all it is for them and um in order to to get there it's not very hard right they just kind of go through the motions that's this very uh stereotypical way that we think about male sexuality and so
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the idea is like, if you need to use a sex toy, even if you want to use a sex toy and enhance your pleasure and explore your body a little bit more and take things to kind of a different level, that there's something kind of wrong with you.
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Like, why would you want to do that?
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Why can't you just be like a normal guy and just masturbate like everyone else?
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So there's this kind of almost like fear around exploring a little bit more with toys if you're a guy, because you're kind of, oh, what if my mates find out?
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Oh, people are going to think I'm weird.
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I'm a bit of a creep or a bit of a loser because I can't get a
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a date or I can't find a real woman, so to speak.
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So there's a lot of these kind of layered fears and stigmas and taboos around male sex toys that really tend to hinder guys from exploring and using one.
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I think so, yeah.
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I think there's like a little bit of a... Like, oh, it just reduces this sexual experience down into an orifice or just a particular hole.
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And I think there is a little bit of...
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I guess, hesitation to kind of want to perpetuate that as well.
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A lot of guys like, oh, I don't just want to stick my dick in something.
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Maybe some guys are feeling that, but there's a lot of other toys out there that I think aren't really as well known.
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There's a lot of like vibrating rings and things like that, that maybe aren't as, let's say, intimidating, I suppose, or have a lot of stigma attached to them.
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That can be a little bit more of a entry point for guys to start exploring sex toys.
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And something that I really like to encourage guys to do when they start using sex toys is to use them to not only enhance their pleasure, but also enhance their sexual function.
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A masturbatory sleeve, for example, like an artificial vagina, can be really helpful for a guy to learn what strokes really overstimulate him so that he can train himself or help himself last longer when he is with a vagina.
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