Cam Fraser

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418 appearances 8 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2021 last heard Aug 2022

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The Hook Up · When you’ve never had an orgasm before · 29 Mar 2022 podcast

There's a correlation between that and these men struggling to orgasm and ejaculate.

And yeah, a lot of men don't, the reason why we don't have a lot of research into it is because a lot of men don't report it.

It's very underreported because it's kind of seen as a quote unquote good thing that you can last so long.

And so men tend to misreport or underreport their instances of being unable to finish.

The Hook Up · A finger in the bum can make you cum · 15 Mar 2022 podcast

This is an ABC podcast.

There's a great book actually for people that are interested in kind of learning more about this by uh Charlie Glickman called The Art of Prostate Pleasure.

And uh he kind of highlights some reasons why people are embarrassed.

And one of them is uh because they're uh afraid that there might be a hygiene factor going on, like it might be a little bit gross, they might get some poop on their finger, or it might just be a little bit uh awkward and and you know, something might be going.

Going on with regards to hygiene.

So that and that's relatively easy to mitigate.

We can kind of talk about that um as well.

But uh another reason why people might be embarrassed is because uh they're they're maybe they're a bit worried that it's gonna hurt them, that that that there's gonna be some pain and some discomfort, and maybe it's gonna feel uncomfortable uh for them as the the person receiving and their partner might not be sure how to kind of navigate that.

Uh, and then another reason, and this is quite a big one, is

There's a little bit of internalized homophobia and and sometimes maybe a lot of internalized homophobia when it comes to prostate simulation, particularly for uh cishet men.

And so there's like this fear of, well, what will my partner think about me?

What does this mean about my own sexuality?

Uh and then there's also a general fear of like.

asking for what it is that we want and and asking for for things that we desire sexually and maybe thinking, oh, is it selfish for me to ask this for my partner to want to, you know, to to stimulate me in this way?

Is it selfish to kind of put my pleasure uh first?

Uh so we have a general fear, I think, as people of of asking for things that we want.

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