Dr. Caroline Fleck

You don't care. You don't care. You think this is fun. You think this is fun. Just really kind of... Wow.

You don't care. You don't care. You think this is fun. You think this is fun. Just really kind of... Wow.

It is. And in my heart, I'm feeling responsible for... For what's going on.

It is. And in my heart, I'm feeling responsible for... For what's going on.

And then like, I need to get this under control. So it's that type of, those types of situations. And if these skills work in those situations... Their potential when the stakes are much lower and folks are much more rational is significantly bigger.

And then like, I need to get this under control. So it's that type of, those types of situations. And if these skills work in those situations... Their potential when the stakes are much lower and folks are much more rational is significantly bigger.

Exactly.

Exactly.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yes. I mean, it's much easier.

Yes. I mean, it's much easier.

There's a lot of different things that go into that. At this, at that point, what I would start doing genuinely is actually to copy back. Okay. So let me get this right. I want to make sure I've got this. You emailed me yesterday. From your perspective, this should have been a signal to me that you were in crisis. Okay. I, okay. And I need to be careful not to say that wasn't in your email.

There's a lot of different things that go into that. At this, at that point, what I would start doing genuinely is actually to copy back. Okay. So let me get this right. I want to make sure I've got this. You emailed me yesterday. From your perspective, this should have been a signal to me that you were in crisis. Okay. I, okay. And I need to be careful not to say that wasn't in your email.

Just like, so, so right now I got it. You were feeling like I totally betrayed you. Like I'm intentionally trying to hurt you. Oh my gosh. Okay. I get, I see, I see, I see. Oh, I'm so sorry. You feel that way. Oh my gosh. That is no, no, no, no. That is not what happened. Not from my, can I share my perspective?

Just like, so, so right now I got it. You were feeling like I totally betrayed you. Like I'm intentionally trying to hurt you. Oh my gosh. Okay. I get, I see, I see, I see. Oh, I'm so sorry. You feel that way. Oh my gosh. That is no, no, no, no. That is not what happened. Not from my, can I share my perspective?

It's okay if you don't want me to, cause that could sound offensive, but I really, I, I, I'm, I, it hurts my heart that there was this miscommunication.

It's okay if you don't want me to, cause that could sound offensive, but I really, I, I, I'm, I, it hurts my heart that there was this miscommunication.

Yeah, a little.

Yeah, a little.