Dr. Jared White

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The Hook Up · How to know if you're dating a narcissist · 18 May 2020 podcast

I guess the key difference is whether you have insight into that or not.

With narcissistic personality disorder you have to hit at least five of nine criteria that are in uh the clinical diagnostic manual.

We can often see things like

uh this focus on being the centre of attention and conversation is very much about the individual and they're not really curious about the other person, kind of only get excited when the conversation is about them.

Or they go from at one point being really nice to just being indifferent because it's no longer about them or a lot of defensiveness and it's all about putting other people down to bring themselves back up.

And as mentioned, kind of this victim stance where everything is turned around, they become the victim.

And I guess you'll often see that um in many different ways.

Yeah, I think one of the things that you find when you're dealing with a narcissist is that they very much make things about themselves.

Um, I mean that's one of the key traits.

I think it really pushes the other partner into a place where

the narcissist needs all the support and is the narcissist is the one that's the victim.

And so it kind of pushes the other person into a place where they feel like they have to let go of their support so they can support the narcissist and they're not allowed to have their own kind of ways of looking after their own mental health.

Yeah, look, I think that's the million dollar question.

I think a very simple answer is just go.

But the fact of the matter is that relationships aren't that simple, right?

You know, I guess that's what this whole show is about.

People stay in relationships for a whole lot of reasons.

And I guess the tough thing is that, you know, then if you if you're gonna stay, what do you do?

And one of the things I guess in that stage is to focus, like I was saying in the last segment, on your mental health, because I guess every human being in this world comes into this world more than enough and exists in this world more than enough.

But we can lose sight of that when dating someone that is narcissistic.

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