Dr. Sarah Ashton

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309 appearances 3 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2020 last heard Oct 2021

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The Hook Up · I think I have a kink, now what? · 7 Dec 2020 podcast

What do you think about this kind of fantasy?

Or, you know, um, have you ever watched any porn with this in it?

You know, what do you think about that?

Um, or you might do uh a quiz together where you look at your sexual interests and I think there's a there's a few different ones, but some of them allow

Are you to sort of indicate, oh, I'm really into that or you know, oh yeah, I'd kind of I'd try that, you know.

If you're both kind of revealing things that you like um and that's not just you, then that can be helpful in kind of broaching the topic.

And you never know.

You never know that maybe even if you're the the person that you're with isn't into specifically the thing that you're into, there might be there might be some overlap and there might be some scope for kind of establishing a meeting ground or something or a starting place for you both to explore.

Yeah, well look, I think it's really important with any kind of conversation that you're having, you know, but particularly in this context that you know that

This person is being really vulnerable and this is difficult for them to talk about, you know?

And that the reason why they're sharing this with you is because they want to be closer to you.

Yeah.

And that it doesn't necessarily mean that you need to be on board with it or that you have to do what they're sharing with you.

But in listening to them and

thinking about how they would feel.

So putting yourself in their shoes, you know, it's really important to kind of, you know, to respond softly and to respond with curiosity.

Ask questions.

Oh, tell me what turns you on about that?

When did you start getting interested in that?

You know, what does it involve?

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