James Sexton

You know, we're busy people.

We're hardworking people.

We got a million things going on.

We're spinning all kinds of plates.

And any woman who's signing up for someone like you or either of us, they're doing it for, you know, a reason.

They know we're as advertised.

But take a minute, take a minute to just, because right now you're still trying to close the deal.

You know, you're still trying to impress each other.

And I think that if you can keep a little piece of that, like what does it take to send her a text message that just says, hey, I was in the coffee shop and that song came on that, you know, it makes me think of you.

Or, you know, hey, you know, it was so fun on the couch watching TV with you last night.

I'm so glad I have the prettiest girl in the world.

You know, I caught her eye.

What does that take, 30 seconds?

That is the equivalent of her sending you nudes.

Like that is for her, like that's flowers.

Like you just sent a dozen roses if you send that, you know?

And it's a lot cheaper and it's a lot easier.

And it's something that, again, if you make a point,

You don't even have to tell her that you put a reminder in your phone, but put something that just reminds yourself to just that little bit of connection.

Because it's really easy for all of us to say, all right, I've got that.