Jason Wachub

And something to build off of that, our nine-year-old, there's a lot going on in that brain, nine-year-old girl, lots going on.

And she will struggle a lot in certain situations, just kind of like lose her, just lose it.

And we're dealing with that.

And we'll hear this narrative sometimes, like I'm a bad kid.

And we'll say, no, you're a good kid having a bad moment.

Can I get a Dr. Nicole approved on that?

And so can you talk about the role of ownership in this process that we all need to, we all need to, we all have trauma.

We all have, it's very clear with your work.

And I think more people are waking up to the fact that we all, we all have stuff from our childhood, no matter how great it was.

It's, it's all there shows up every day.

How do you think about ownership?

And so is that process vastly different for, say, a pattern or trauma that's been with us for generations?

It goes deep in the lineage.

And is it ever too late to recognize the pattern and stop it?

Where do most people struggle?

Is it the awareness that the issue is there?

Where do people get tripped up?

You mentioned discomfort.

I think of the tension there between learning how to embrace discomfort versus I think many of our quests in 2026 revolve on how can we become so comfortable?

You know, how do I relax in the air conditioning and, you know, watch TV and scroll?