Nicole Jaques

This takes into account everything, right?

Your schedule, Sean, how you're running, what you're doing, where you are having to be plugged in and when you can plug out.

And everyone has a different system because of how it works inherently in the home, right?

I think if we can talk about burnout with the default parent, that may actually help cure some of the feeling there because burnout happens when like leadership has no structure.

So if you're feeling burned out by being that default parent, again, the accountability piece falls to you.

My husband and I was struggling with this, by the way.

I didn't just like come up with this and my life is perfect.

I'm far from it.

We are lucky I showered this morning and curled my hair.

But at the same time,

like it took systems to get me to this podcast today in order for me to show up with my hair done.

Right.

I didn't just, Oh, my system is in place and everything's working.

Right.

I am primarily the default parent unless I have to tag out.

So it's really understanding a partnership system.

And for the longest time, my husband and I were confused on how do you even do that?

Right.

Cause schedules change.

How much Sean?