Sabrina Zohar

And then these are the people that I date.

There's a disconnect.

So then I would say, well, then you're chasing a feeling because the spark, as we spoke about earlier, is usually your nervous system trying to tell you to run and sending blood to your phalange so you could get out of there.

But they're attractive.

If you don't have the spark, that doesn't mean it's bad.

What I would look at is, are you interested in topics that they talk about?

Do you like what they have to say?

Are you intrigued and interested in talking to them?

If that's the answer, doesn't matter about the spark.

You don't like the person.

And that's the differential.

Both.

It is an honest red flag.

If somebody is openly telling you, I'm not good at relationships, my next question would be, what does that mean?

And I would say, no, thank you, because I am.

Oh, I see it all the time of like, I want a healed person, no more unhealed.

First of all, who is ever healed?

That is a journey for life.

If this is it for me, this is boring, right?

Like if this is it, if I reached my peak.