Tamsen Fadal
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You're not in love with him.
You're in love with the idea of him.
That question is like cold water on your face.
It cuts through the fog of fantasy really, really fast, and it makes it super clear what you should be doing.
And it's not always easy to answer.
Number two, trust actions over promises because those can be hollow.
Potential always lives in the words like, I'm going to do better.
I just need time.
I've never done this before.
Things are going to be different.
Reality is in actions.
You need to look at it.
Does he follow through?
Does he show up?
Does he make room for you in his life?
Is he consistent?
What do your friends feel?
What do his friends act like?
If the answer is no, I want you to stop now making excuses for him.
A man's actions teach you everything you have to know about his capacity to love, and you cannot build a relationship on some day.