Tanya Coons
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3,654 appearances
23 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2016
last heard Aug 2022
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And I think when you're feeling fulfilled and it could be work, it could be activities, it could be friends and family, whatever it is, when you're out there doing your thing, you kind of radiate out this energy that other people find attractive.
It's not this sort of air of desperation like I really want to go on a date because that scares people off.
But when you're out there going, hey, wow, I'm really excited with all the stuff I'm involved in, this is where you need to go and buy a big stick to beat all the people off because they're going to be really, really interested in
No, it's not true at all.
There's nothing wrong with people if they're not in a relationship or haven't experienced love yet.
I mean, first of all, look at all the love that may be around you.
Please don't value romantic love over everything else and feel like you're unlovable because you don't have a partner.
That's simply not true.
And there are lots of ways to get love.
And yeah, I do think it's about being open.
And we do put pressure on ourselves when it's been a long time and start to think, oh, what's wrong with me?
The answer is absolutely nothing.
You know, it's about finding the right person, right time, right place, right person or people as well.
You might want to date a few people because we love each person differently as well.
So maybe we've got some sort of standard or ideal that we're trying to find and squish people into and maybe just relaxing a little and seeing how we interact with folk.
And what happens to our heart as we go along could be really useful.
eh.
Because a lot of people feel distressed.
Like we've had callers in tonight saying, well, I really want to have a relationship or I haven't had one yet, but, you know, I know that I will or I'm, you know, they're a bit concerned about it.
When folks are aromantic, they're not that interested.
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