Tanya Coons
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first heard Feb 2016
last heard Aug 2022
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I get lots of clients, couples come in where there hasn't been much conversation about endo or about painful sex.
And then what can happen is, you know, the partner who's feeling like getting knocked back all the time and not really understanding why can get a bit pouty.
You know, like, why can't I have my favorite position or why can't we have sex more times than I'd like?
And they don't really understand that it's really freaking painful and that there's nothing that their partner can do about that.
It's really tricky for people to manage because it's really shitty and it's really unfair.
And I think you need to allow a little bit of space for that.
What I would do is give the person with endo what I call the three Ps, right?
You decide whether there's going to be penetration.
You decide what position it is and you decide what pace it's going at.
Because often starting something and banging away, for people with or without endo, it's not very pleasant.
But if you're getting pain, then the person with the pain needs to control what the pace is.
And I would recommend starting slow and just, again, seeing what is possible.
there's so much freaking wonderful stuff that you can do that way better i think than stock standard penetrative sex that a
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